Friday, October 22, 2004

Holiday Inn Olathe Action Alert

Today we have a call to arms from our good friend Susan Wright of The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, it would appear that our sexual freedom is being attacked again by right wing extremists here in the USA. One really wonders with all the REAL problems we have, they would have better things to do with there time..!!!

The Holiday Inn Olathe has canceled the Alternative Hedonistic Society, of Kansas City’s fetish ball dispite having a contract. The NCSF is asking for your help in writing to Holiday Inn showing your displeasure at here actions.

Both the NCSF and Susan are tirless in there quest to protect your civil rights, so please suport them and show the lifestyles colors if you can, if you can’t then try to make moral disission when you decide to book your next stay away from home or for that company or corporate event plan.

There are millions od Alternative Lifestyle people here in the USA alone, we can stop this discrimination if we all stick together.

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Monday, October 18, 2004

Presidential Election - 2004

With the American Presidential Elections coming fast its time to reflect and look at what you want from a President, there are many major issues that continue to be debated and are not only important for the USA but the world. However there are also issues relating to your rights, privacy and sexual preferences that you should ask yourself before voting, these matters are often forgotten in the debate. I don’t think that its unreasonable for us to ask questions on which candidate suites your lifestyle or at best would not support any governmental intrusion and or help stop other government departments from interfering with your pursuit of happiness.

Its not our place to support either candidate, however we can suggest that you look at this issue when deciding who to vote for and use your best judgment and use that valuable vote wisely. Americans get a chance once every 4 years to make a change or redirect their President back on track to what the people of the USA want as only the fear of losing an election can really do.

Perhaps this might entice you to register to vote and stand up for your rights, personally I don’t think it’s a bad thing for and perhaps about time that politicians start to realize that there are millions of voters in America that are Alternative Lifestylers; each with a vote in every election. Even they know that it’s a secret ballet vote, anonymous to others but can easily change the out come of an election and change a government or even a President..!!!

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Fetish Underground Chat Room

We are proud to bring you our new portal to the Fetish Underground, it's a great place to meet others interested in Alternative Sex Lives and Lifestyles. In fact it's where kitten and I first meet, so we have a very soft spot in our hearts for this Chat Room. You can meet some very interesting people from around the world and perhaps that very special person that you have been looking for: just like kitten and I ..:)

  • Kittens Portal to "The Fetish Under Ground"

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    BDSM Getting Started

    Well no matter what we go out in life to achieve, none of us were born with all the information that we have accumulated over the years. And the same goes with the BDSM lifestyle. The information is a vast ocean of people, making comments on what they feel is right and not right in the lifestyle. Me I like to stay on middle ground. As I feel, BDSM has a base with certain basic protocols, and respect towards others. And from there we spout out into our own little likes and dislikes we put our little twists and kinks in to our relationships, things that seem to make them work for US. Here are two really good authors, one which I have met in person. This covers some tips to breaking out into the BDSM lifestyle. I hope you enjoy it, I know I did. Also if you like this article, Jay Wiseman has also written a great book called SM 101, which is highlighted in today’s book review. :)
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    The Masters Creed

    This document is usually called the Masters Creed, however I am sure you will agree that it is really relevant to both genders and has something for all of us within its wisdom. Many times people in the vanilla world just see what’s written in the press and media about the lifestyle and have no idea of the responsibility that a true Dominate has to live up to. After we included the submissive creed, submissive rights and slaves prayer, we felt that we need some balance and hopefully this will start to balance and provoke some thought.
  • The Dominates Creed

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    From A Submissives View

    Hello… my name is kitten, I am a branded life slave to Sir Anthony and the co-owner of Kittens Toy Room. When Sir asked me to add some things into this blog I thought what the heck can I write about?? Well I think that to start out I will put up some of the most important documents that I have seen written. “The Submissives Creed, Submissives Rights and The Slaves Prayer.” These three documents have been around the lifestyle for a while and I feel are a wonderful foundation to what a submissive should be about. Yes, we all strive to be better for our Dom/mes, and for ourselves, and for a submissive this is a constant and ongoing and very much a daily challenge. Within these three documents you can usually find the foundation to the start of an answer that you may have had questioned, or just as a guideline and help thru everyday circumstances that you encounter. They are the basis from where our submissiveness expands.

  • Slaves Prayer

  • Submissives Creed

  • Submissives Rights

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    How to be a S.A.M.

    Well everyone keeps telling me that I am a quintessential S.A.M. (Smart Ass Masochist) so I thought I would let everyone in on the handbook I use. We wouldn’t want anyone to get misled down the wrong path to S.A.M-dom. Giggling. Enjoy as much as I did!! Thank you Alkallah for putting into words what so many of us S.A.M.’s try to portray!!
  • How to be a S.A.M.

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    Branding "An Honor but Huge Responsibility"

    There are many articles on the web about branding as done as a body art. But very few of them talk about branding in the BDSM Lifestyle. Many of our customers and people whom we have associated with have asked me about my Brand. From being a submissive over the past 18 years, this was something for a submissive/slave to strive towards. And also was the highest honor that a Master or Dom/me could bestow upon a submissive/slave. This meant that this responsibility as a Master or Dom/me that they took on they are ready to seize as a life commitment. But along with that, on the submissives part come’s a huge decision and responsibility in itself. This is not a Tattoo, it can NOT be removed, this is a dedication to your Dom/me that you will stand by his side thru thick and thin, and do everything within your power (consensually) to make him happy. This is a big step, not just a ring on the finger that can be taken off and thrown in a drawer. If there are ANY doubts about your relationship, this should not be something that is taken lightly, and remember no other decent Master or Dom/me will touch you if your original relationship breaks up; for you wear someone else’s Mark. Please if you are considering this as a part of your ritual in your relationship, make sure you are ready to take on the responsibility that comes along with this honor.

  • Kittens Branding Information Page

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    The History of Sadomasochism

    I find it highly amazing that a lifestyle which we are trying to convince society is safe, sane and consensual, has so little on what the history of it actually is. I went thru many websites, and did a lot of research thru books and I think that this is the most complete that I have seen out there. It also includes a lot of great info on the lifestyle in laymen enough terms that anyone even a vanilla could understand, and some of the most informative websites for links for further reading.
    The History of Sadomasochism

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    “Ask The kitten” Sex Questions

    Many of our customers email kitten asking questions relating to the BDSM Lifestyle, Alternative Lifestyle and Questions Relating to there sex lives and the relationship of sex in there sexual relationships.

    Here you can “Ask the kitten” any question you want and she will try to give you an open and honest answer. Simply “Click” here to "Ask The Kitten"

    If you don’t want your question and answer posted on this site, please let us know in the email and we will simply email you then answer (without posting it).

    Also we never post peoples email addresses and just the question and answer with a nickname and state, so it’s already for you to ask the kitten.

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    Alternative Lifestyle Books

    Personally I have read thru more Lifestyle books, both Non-fiction and Fiction than most will in a lifetime. Although Not an extensive listing, the books that I have found most helpful and most intriguing are on my website. Although I couldn’t put all of them on, (I don’t think that there are enough pages on the World Wide Web to do this) I have picked out a handful of books that I feel are Exceptional. I have also included here a more wide spread listing of books also that I have found on the web. Thanks to the Janis Society (One of the oldest of all the BDSM clubs originated in California)

    Our Books at Kitten’s Toy Room
  • Kittens Book Selection


    • Janis Societies recommendation for BDSM books
  • Janis Society

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    Cock Ring Information

    We at Kittens Toy Room have been asked so many times about the most prevalent and common of male sex toys the Cock Ring; that we have now placed a special page up dedicated to them alone. Often considered a simple product by so many the reality is that people have trouble with the simplest of things like, sizing and choosing cock rings. Hopefully this page will help to answer some of your questions and you can always email us with any specific questions you have about cock rings or any other sex toy.

  • Kittens Cock Ring Sizing and Information Page

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    Piercing & Body Jewelry Info

    Many people consider, having themselves pierced in one form or another at some time in their lives. Whether the piercing is from your ears to a piece or part of you that is a bit more extreme. I have seen some piercing's out there in the lifestyle, that I think to myself WHY? But obviously each and every person has reasoning for getting every piercing that they have.

    For me my piercing’s have not only been for enjoyment reasons, but also as a way to symbolize my submission to my Sir.

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  • Kittens Body Piercing Article

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    Sex Toys Cleaning & Hygiene

    In these days of very public media coverage on STD’s (Sexually Transmitted Disease) we have put together some ideas and comments on Sex Toy Cleaning and Lifestyle Hygiene. It’s interesting to point out that safe, sane and consensual goes well past those that we immediately play with. It also stands for those that play with the toys we have played with after our use....
  • Sex Toy Cleaning & Hygiene

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    Kittens Sex Toy Reviews

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    Fighting Hate & Your Civil Rights

    Kittens Toy Room is at the forefront of the Fight Against Hate, the misnomers and false accusations levered at the BSM, Leather and other Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Comminutes. Here is place to add your comments and links to other groups and organizations battling in the fight against hate, there are some wonderful organizations now with a band of lawyers to help you in your battle.....
  • Fighting Hate

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    Strange Sex Laws Across the USA

    Well when we wonder where our tax money is going you don’t have to look too far, there are some strange sex laws all over the world that are indicative to their culture. But you don’t have to look over seas to find them; we have collected just a few of these little government money wasters...............

  • Strange Sex Laws (USA

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    Alternative Lifestyle Humor & Jokes

    Ok so I thought, geez we are a company from Wisconsin, and I don’t know about anyone else, but I need a good laugh now and again. Someone had sent me this a long time back and it still makes me roll in Laughter, I hope everyone else enjoys it as much as I did!! Or at least sees my sick Humor in it. Giggling. It may take a little bit to load it, but it is WELL worthwhile...
  • I'm a Cow

  • Kittens Humor & Joke Page

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    Thoughts on Male Chastity

    Chastity Devices in particular Male Chastity Devices have become one of the hottest conversation subjects in the BDSM arena of late. Not only in this theatre of conversation but also in the vanilla world it would seem, that many are finding that chastity and fidelity go hand in hand. Is it the fact that what we cant have is what we want them most and could it be that giving piece of mind to ones partner creates a mutually beneficiall environment that both partners enjoy and feel safer with?
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    Your Sexual Taste Changes with Age

    We get hundreds of emails from customers every month asking questions about how they feel sexually today verses how they felt about it 20 years ago, when they where in there teens and 20’s. It appears to us that many don’t really find there true sexual path until latter in there lives, perhaps it’s the fact that peoples life experiences takes time to mold there sexuality or its just as the kids leave they can explore it more freely.......
  • Mature Sexuality

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    Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras

    We have added link to the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras, it’s a wonderful event and a real celebration of the culture that the Gay & Lesbian Communities bring us. Some of it is way-out there, however there cultural contribution and also there HUGE financial contribution and injection is unquestionable, Sydney is a great place for any vacation and this event is a great idea for some kinksters to consider for there vacation calandar.
  • Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi

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    Luxury Kinky Vacations

    New Zealand is known for its stunning scenery, hospitality and superb food and has become a sort after location for the international jetsetters for many years now. What has been one of the Alternative Lifestyles best-kept secrets is its Alternative Lifestyle Activities. In particular one establishment that is fast becoming one of the lifestyles Premier BDSM and Alternate Retreats, Kink Haven describes its self as “The D/s BDSM Retreat for Discerning People” (this has to be a New Zealand understatement)…
  • Read Full Article

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    Before You Get Started Swinging

    We have has so many people ask us about swinging that we have asked an expert on the matter, Sue of Club Adventure to join us with both her vast experince with the Swingers Lifetsyle and as a Jounalist. The first of her contributions start with the basics (by By Edgar W. Butler, Ph.D. and edited by Sue) and you might find this artical more than interesting. There are so many more factors to be considered before one starts in the Swingers Lifestyle and like all things in life there are some very indepth questions to ask each other and to be answered HONESTLY first...
  • Sue's Article

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    The Most Common FAQ 's for Swingers

    Today we have another contribution by Sue of Club Adventure, there appears to be a lot of confusion out there on the general basics of the Swingers Lifestyle and with good council Sue has given us a list of basics to publish for our readers. There is some good common sense within her basic FAQ on swinging, its usually the same thought out life is it not; that common sense usually has all the answers and we over complicate issues ourselves.

    We hope this helps those that are looking into the Swingers Lifestyle as an alternative to there normal sexual experince and also as a refresher to those that already swing and may need a little remind on ther journey.
  • Sue's FAQ for Swingers

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    Bisexuality What Is It!!!

    Many people have the false impression of what Bi Sexuality is. Some people believe that they can have the best of all worlds with a Bi Sexual partner, common misconception. Some don’t want anything to do with a bisexual because of the factor of getting hurt or left for the other sex. There are so many facets of bisexuality, just as there are in all lifestyles out there. There is not One right or wrong. But over the years bisexuality has been split up onto 13 different types of bisexuality defined by sexual desires and experiences. Which one are you? If Any?
  • Read Full Article

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    International Mr. Leather "IML 2005"

    One of the worlds great fetish events; if not the greatest is coming up soon 27th-31st May 2003, this is a tremendous event with literally thousands of participants and although its a primarily Gay Event many of us in the pan-sexual world just love going for its richness and leather culture. Don't miss this event, its simply stunning...!!
  • International Mr. Leather

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    President Bush a Divider not a Uniter!!

    I find it really hard to understand, why it is that the United States can’t seem to grip reality when it comes to Same Sex Marriages. Is it not our right’s as American Citizen’s to have Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness? So if our life includes someone who is of the same sex and this is our happiness, then why does everyone have such a hard time letting the gay community have marriage just as heterosexuals have it Under the same stipulations that Heterosexual people do? What is the major problem with this? President Bush made statements that it was very clear that he wants to “pass the buck” to the state governments, for them to make the decision.
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  • HRC Petition

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    Kittens Fetish & Sex Blog Review

    There are so many bad Sex Blogs & Fetish Blogs out there and also some good ones, we thought that it was time to start a review of these and have some where to search and look for the pre-qualified good ones. We have already added some to our list and they are very worth visiting..:)
  • Kittens Sex Blog Review

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    Kittens Toy Room Sponsorship

    Kittens Toy Room has been Sponsoring Alternative Lifestyle Events for some time now, this page is intended for others to share some thoughts and links for Fetish Events all over the USA.

    There are so many diversities within our culture and so many people that dedicate and donate there time to both organizing and working these events. Both myself and kitten wish to thank those people and give them and others the opportunity to tell us about there events and list them.

  • Visit Kittens Sponsorship Page

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    Saturday, October 16, 2004

    Alternative Lifestyle, Fetish Blog & Sex Info

    Our Sex Blog and Sex Information List relating to sexual issues and information. This list is not limited to just Kittens Toy Room's listings, anyone can ask to list a genuine sex information website or blog. Here you wil find some excellent links to many other Aletrnative Lifestyle Links and Information Sites, we hope that you find the information you are looking for and have great time doing so.

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